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What are the basic values should one have for a successful relationship? You might say what a silly question? It depends on person to person. But hey, I asked for basic qualities.
- Being honest with partner
- Respect the partner as other is
- Have full faith on other
Wait, wait!!! Before you react, let me elaborate on all these values a little and then will take some very common examples to prove that all major problems in a relationship comes if any of the above value is not followed.
- Being honest with partner: - it doesn’t mean that only one is honest with other person and that’s it. It includes honesty for one’s family values and attributes. Whether one does family will accept the other person? Talk about one’s culture with other person in detail and talk about the mutual compromises to be done before hand. Talk about ambitious and future plans in detail to avoid any further clashes.
- Respect the partner as other is: - Do you like the other person? Then just accept like that only. Don’t try to change other person as per your requirement. If you don’t like anything in other person. Say it (Follow rule 1) and let other person take the decision regarding it.
- Have full faith on other: - Nothing to say about it, just do it! Don’t add complications in your life by doubting the other person. Give comfort to each other by following it.
Stay tuned for some case studies on the above theory
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Relationship: Case Study 1
Well, here I am with my first story. All names and other details have been changed until unless those have impact on the story. To get the back ground, check this link:http://www.amittal.in/index.php?/archives/44-Three-basic-values-for-a-successful-relati
Well, here I am with my first story. All names and other details have been changed until unless those have impact on the story. To get the back ground, check this link:http://www.amittal.in/index.php?/archives/44-Three-basic-values-for-a-successful-relati
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Relationship: Case Study 3
One of my friend was in relationship with a guy for more than 5 years or so. They were looking great together but the thing was the girl was open-minded while the boy was very possessive. He didn't give her any space to grow her personality. Also, he wa
One of my friend was in relationship with a guy for more than 5 years or so. They were looking great together but the thing was the girl was open-minded while the boy was very possessive. He didn't give her any space to grow her personality. Also, he wa
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I was watching "Lounge" on "NDTV Good Times hosted by my favorite Rajat Kapoor. The topic of discussion was which one is hard to forget: emotional infidelity or sexual adultery. Three different people invited to the program from different backgrounds.
I was watching "Lounge" on "NDTV Good Times hosted by my favorite Rajat Kapoor. The topic of discussion was which one is hard to forget: emotional infidelity or sexual adultery. Three different people invited to the program from different backgrounds.
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Because married people are biased to their own opinions and can't think rationally.
Thanks Buddy, I really appreciate your encouragement. Let me know if you know of any story where these values doesn't hold good. Stay tuned for some real life stories where I will prove these.BTW, you can not be a Recker for sure!!!
All kind of generalizations are bad e.g. "married people are biased to their own opinions and can't think rationally" Does that mean when you get married you will stop thinking rationally (Assuming you are thinking rationally now) My first comment was made in lighter vein. However your reply really disappointed me.
See, first instead of writing something on my blog, you wrote that "Single person is giving gyan" so I just replied to that. Having a thinking is independent of whether you are married or single. How do you know that I have never been into any relationship or don't know any such cases from real life?Even my comment was also very casual and I just targeted sarcasm embedded into your comment. That's it!!! I didn't mean in any other way. I know quite a few married people who are quite mature in this respect and also some singles too. There is no relation between maturity on any subject and your current status.So chill buddy and have fun!!!
As I read through this article, one doubt that crept into my mind was if the word "relationship" here meant marriage or something even before that? Because, the 1st point talks of having a detailed talk "before hand".Now, assuming that the "relationship" is that before marriage, I agree with all three points but with some comments.I can be honest with reference to today's situation and agree to do do this and that, compromise under so and so circumstances etc... etc...We all know situations can be dynamic. What happens when there is a unavoidable change in the scenario wherein one partner cant stick to his promise after the wedding? Ambitions can alter, so will future plans. So discussing and committing on mutual compromises and life plans may not help always.Nothing is impossible and its all in the mind, so "it is easier said than done" is absolute nonsense as you said.Nicely analysed and well written article I am awiating the case studies!!!!
I am awiating the case studies!!!!
Aparna,I mean by relationship as general. Friendship is the first step for any relationship (if you call it a marriage). So all three values should be taken care for any relation you really want. You might see a resistance in the starting but with time these will really help you in building it stronger and stronger.
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